I was talking with a friend recently about my previous post on Van Morrison and his mood-laden song, “When the Leaves Come Falling Down.” He was telling me how another Morrison mooder, “Melancholia,” is reportedly Morrison’s only truly autobiographical song and, indeed, also represents my friend’s truest and deepest stance toward life.
This surprised me a bit, inasmuch as my friend, whom I’ve known pretty well for most of my adult life, presents a rather relentlessly cheerful public persona, far removed from the dark brooding pathos of “Melancholia.”
Yet it also put me on notice, again, of the deep sadness that underlies so much of life and so many people, a sadness virtually everyone meets on various and shifting terms throughout the peaks and vales of our brief tenures here.
This sadness is heightened in fall, when death and the loss of light all through nature rather massively reinforces the darkenings we experience any day and season of the year as friends and loved ones fall to a sudden hemorrhage or protracted cancer, a whiplashing rear-ender, the infirmities of age, the indignity and potential desperation of job loss, the severing of a cherished relationship, ad-and-ever-so-sad infinitum…
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So Linda Ronstadt has Parkinson’s disease, oh please. Can’t even sing anymore, other than in a straightforward though plaintive speaking voice as she tells her tale to Terry Gross. Linda, the very epitome of an eternally smoldering babe, proof positive that it’s not all about blondes for American males, is it?
Heftier and less babe-like now, fair enough, those being the wages of time and genetics. But to completely lose her voice to a disease affecting the musculature in general and thus including those exquisite muscles in her throat, the very throat that produced her pitch-perfect sound and which looked so fetching above the loosely hung dresses of her Stone Poneyhood?
Linda Ronstadt with a disease that takes her voice is not the sweet reflective sad of watching a golden leaf spiraling slowly down to a garden. It’s more a fist-shaking, despairing mad at the cruel irony of it all.
Could not the gods have smote her with a standard issue kidney disease for which she’d receive treatment that would leave her feeling wretched and debilitated but still singing, even if the songs coming through reflected only her pain? That would be tolerable (at least for us).
But not to sing at all? Desirous, but unable?
This Rondstadtian gift, silenced? No melancholia in that, no bittersweetness of fall—only bitter.
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“Melancholy is the pleasure of being sad,” wrote Victor Hugo. We crawl into that cocoon for a sabbatical from the pressures of nonstop social happiness, but not to lose what is most important and vital to us. No pleasure there. The fact that Ronstadt is taking it with the apparent good grace that she is speaks well of her, coping as she can. But for her fans (somehow that word feels utterly limp) it’s plain black and rotten.
In her own caption to the photo on the right, photographer Madalina Seghete asks: “Melancholy? Desire?” I would answer: “Yes. Of course.”
Melancholy always carries within it the seeds of desire, longing to sprout into full possession of the longed-after object: God, an unrequited or otherwise unavailable love, some vaguely defined and elusive sense of happiness or at least mild contentment. Something around the corner, barely up ahead, but never quite here, now. And so we rest into the lack and the longing, the sweet somber absence, perhaps accompanied by a glass of dark port on a dark rainy Friday, and Linda, urgent now, sings:
Some. Say. A heart.
Is just. Like. A wheel.
When you bend it.
You can’t mend it.
Wasn’t written that way, but her melancholy runs so deep here she can’t even sing through a sentence but instead stops, reduced to a word or two at a time, barely keeping herself from a long gushing wail that may never stop at all were she to let even one line run.
What a marvel of phrasing.
Settling in now, she gives her melancholy full rein in the subsequent lines:
But my love for you is like a sinking ship
And my heart is on that ship out in mid-ocean
When harm is done no love can be won
I know it happens frequently
What I can’t understand oh please God hold my hand
Why it had to happen to me
The longed-for object is as old as time here: our singer, channeling the heart-rending lyrics of Canadian songwriter Anna McGarrigle, wants her great love back and is so despairing of ever getting it she cries out to God for understanding.
Ronstadt’s beyond-desperate voice gives the distinct sense, however, that God won’t be answering.
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For Van Morrison and his own melancholia, the longing is for nothing as distinct and potentially attainable as a love object. No, his darkness is in his DNA, something no earthly love or other indulgence is apparently capable of overcoming:
Well it’s in my blood and it’s in my veins
Here it comes again, when I’m in the rain
In the wind and rain, well the sun don’t shine
Well it’s always mine, all of the time
Melancholia
Melancholia
Melancholia
And it’s in my life and it’s all the time
It doesn’t go away when the church bells chime
In the evening time when I drink my wine
In the evening time when it’s on my mind
Melancholia
Melancholia
Melancholia
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Morrison is a master of prayerful incantation; one can almost smell the incense as dark-robed and hooded monks shuffle down the aisle at the Midnight Office, chanting: Melancholia, melancholia, melancholia…
This is the melancholy that is often a thin sliver of brooding removed from full-blown depression, in which no sweet light of sadness is allowed but all is dark, dark, the deep empty dark. One tends not to sing oneself out of these descents with anything approaching ease or Hugo’s sad pleasure.
To examine Morrison’s vast body of work—running frequently to titles such as “Sometimes We Cry,” “In the Midnight,” “Underlying Depression,” “No Religion,” “Wasted Years”— is to be reminded of how close he seems to sidle up to that edge, and how it is perhaps only his writing and singing that keep him on this side.
Indeed, perhaps it is only the artistry of Morrison, Ronstadt, Hugo, and the vast sprawling corps of others who dedicate themselves to finding their voices and thus their way through the dark foggy corridors of this most vexing human condition that saves the rest of us. Art as the God whose absence begets the very art that continues to call its name.
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Linda Ronstadt’s voice will be with us as long as there is a You Tube and whatever its successors turn out to be. And until someone unearths a heretofore unknown bootleg tape, here is the definitive version of her heart, so melancholically like a wheel…
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Such marvelous photographers! Profound thanks to:
Elizabeth Haslam for rotating banner photos (except for books) at top of page , some rights reserved under Creative Commons licensing, see more at: https://www.flickr.com/photos/lizhaslam/
Library books by Larry Rose, Redlands, California, all rights reserved, contact: larry@rosefoto.com
Mist through trees photo by 23am.com, some rights reserved under Creative Commons licensing, see more at: http://www.flickr.com/photos/23am/
Graveyard sculpture photo by Herr Kacsmarek of Ruhrgebiet, Germany, some rights reserved under Creative Commons licensing, see more at: http://www.flickr.com/photos/kaczmarek/
Melancholy woman photo by Madalina Seghete of San Francisco (by way of Bucharest), some rights reserved under Creative Commons licensing, see more at: http://www.flickr.com/photos/mada299/
Small candle photo by Sara K, some rights reserved under Creative Commons licensing, see more at: http://www.flickr.com/photos/sarzk/
If I were to venture a guess, I’d say that it’s quite possible Van Morrison is a manic-depressive, or, at least, that his songs give that impression, moving from incredible highs to incredible lows. Songs like “Full Force Gale,” “Domino,” etc are about as happy as I can handle in a song contrasting with the melancholy masterpieces he’s written. I’ve always thought that one of the most remarkable things about Van’s music is how he can take blues rhythms and translate them into uplifting songs.
As far as being his most biographical song, I don’t think you get more biographical than “Cleaning Windows” or “New Biography” where the narrator complains about phony biographies. Oh and then there’s numerous songs where he complains about record producers cheating him, if they aren’t autobiographical one has to wonder why Van would think that they would appeal to 99% of his listeners.
On the other hand, I don’t trust any of his songs to accurately reflect his true views. I believe Van when he claims that he’s a song writer and his main concern is producing a great song. In the end, though, don’t all writers write from their own personal experience, even if they claim otherwise?
As the sometimes melancholy fellow in question, I can say that every morning I wake up and realize that I have the choice to choose the ugliness of life or the beauty. Now, more often than not, I choose the beauty. The ugly is still there, and still needs to be confronted, but the day begins with an affirmation of all that is good.
One summer back in the early 70s, I saw Linda open her tour in Phoenix, perform a free concert in NYC’s Central Park, and close in her home town of Tucson. (My home at the time.) It was true love.
Signed,
An official Van Morrison cultist.
Again, as I’ve mentioned to you before, writing a blog while vacationing is a testament to your self-discipline and dedication to this “traversing” child you’ve created. About the only thing I seem to write on a vacation is my signature on a restaurant Visa charge. We lost a very dear friend to cancer last week. On our high school’s Facebook page, I wrote a reflection on our last get-together a few months ago. Death is an octopus of emotions: pain, anger, shock, numbness, sadness, a real sense of one’s own mortality, shared moments of laughter and tears, and for some even guilt.
A few years ago in a Zoom meeting, Dave revealed to us that he had cancer, and unfortunately it had metastasized. We were shocked. We decided there and then to hold our yearly get together in Southern California to make it easier on him. Last August, we all met at an Oceanside Airbnb for four days. It was a great time for all of us. Somehow, amidst hours of laughter and reminiscing, we managed to stumble upon a women’s professional surfing competition, took an easy-going cornhole competition far too seriously, ate well, drank some, and attended a Padres-Cardinals baseball game which Dave passed on because he was too tired. Knowing Dave’s penchant for our national pastime and mustard-pickle relish-onion laden hot dogs, we were a little surprised and more than a little disappointed. We would miss him. On our way from the trolley station to Petco Park, we struck up friendly conversations with fellow fans. Many complimented us on keeping our friendships afloat after so many years. At some point, someone asked me how many of us were part of this reunion. I said five and added “Dave’s not here.” When we left Oceanside a few days later, Dave and I drove north to meet another high school classmate and the others at an Italian restaurant in Pasadena. During those two hours, most of our conversation centered on his nearly 40-year career as a Hollywood cameraman/cinematographer. He told wonderful stories. When we said goodbye that afternoon, I had no idea it would be our last. I do know this. For all of us who were lucky enough to call him a friend, we can say with a smile that “Dave will always be here.”
Writing is often a cathartic exercise for me, especially when coming to grips with the death of a friend. It temporarily shelves some of the melancholy.
I was among the group that Robert Spencer references in his post. The loss of our dear friend Dave left me with a deep sense of sadness and a lingering sense of melancholy that seems to blend the ache of losing a longtime friend with reflections on long-gone youth and vitality and the realities of my own life and the lives of friends and loved ones headed to the back stretch of life. It is all so hard to process and reconcile while moving forward as life as an elder unfolds. Staving off melancholy, I believe, requires a fair amount of grit, tenacity, and remembering to find gratitude for life, hope, and beauty.
Thanks, Robert and Jay, for these reflections on the passing of Dave, who will indeed “always be here,” engendering its own kind of melancholy that is both particular to our memory of him and shared by all who suffer grievous loss, which is to say, everyone who lives long enough. Here’s to him!