Onwards to 2016 With “Gratitude” for Oliver Sacks

Every passing year sees the passing of more people from our lives. Whether from death, ruptured or merely faded relationship, or the loss of the person we once knew because dementia has robbed him or her of that cherished personhood, we come to the final days of a year and amid our looks back, as joyous as some of them might be, we are also reminded of loss.

As an additional reminder, news programs highlight the more prominent people who have died, displaying a list of names and faces as the year’s final credits roll.

Among those names this year, and prominent indeed on my list: Oliver Sacks.

Author of startlingly original works such as Awakenings and The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat, Sacks was a neurologist, professor, writer, thinker, ruminator, and possessor of endless curiosity and a puckish humor. He lived fully through his 82 years, wanting more but settling gracefully for what he got, finally felled by a cancer that had assaulted him nine years earlier but had given him a long reprieve.

He wrote about its metastatic return and his terminal diagnosis this past February in an op-ed for the New York Times, then followed it up with two more typically eloquent essays, one on the periodic table and the last a reflection on the Sabbath, which appeared just two weeks before he died on August 30.

Recently, his publisher packaged these three reflections along with a fourth written in 2013 on the element mercury (number 80, which Sacks connected to his 80th birthday that year), in a slim volume called “Gratitude.” Though none of the essays address that as a primary theme, gratitude percolates throughout the 45 pages of these meditations from one of the most delightful minds of his generation.

In “My Own Life,” he lays out the situation about as forthrightly as possible:

“I feel grateful that I have been granted nine years of good health and productivity since the original diagnosis, but now I am face to face with dying. The cancer occupies a third of my liver, and though its advance may be slowed, this particular sort of cancer cannot be halted. It is up to me now to choose how to live out the months that remain to me. I have to live in the richest, deepest, most productive way I can.”


Oliver Sacks


And of course, therein lies a rub which Dr. Sacks would himself no doubt muse over, very likely chuckling throughout: Why wouldn’t we feel compelled and driven to live in “the richest, deepest, most productive way” we can all the time, even prior to a terminal diagnosis? Even lacking that diagnosis, we are all, indeed, dying, all of us terminal, the universe having placed a stamp upon our mortal lives, exact day unknown to us, a sell-by date when the entropy and decay comes to its final and natural denouement, and we breathe our last.

Past a certain age, we carry this knowledge around with us even as we go about our lives as if they will last forever—or at least until that kid gets grown and settled, or the retirement delivers some long-delayed gratification, or the Cubs finally get to the damn World Series again.

Fortunately—and joyously—Sacks did, from all indications, live a good part of his life “richly, deeply, and productively.” His own testimony helps here as he quotes and praises the philosopher David Hume living life to the fullest in the late 1800s, with Hume writing:

“I am …a man of mild dispositions, of command of temper, of an open, social, and cheerful humour, capable of attachment, but little susceptible of enmity, and of great moderation in all my passions.”

Sacks admires Hume’s practical and cheerful bent, but then adds this:

“Here I depart from Hume. While I have enjoyed loving relationships and friendships and have no real enmities, I cannot say (nor would anyone who knows me say) that I am a man of mild dispositions. On the contrary, I am a man of vehement disposition, with violent enthusiasms, and extreme immoderation in all my passions.”

Oh Ollie, I hardly knew ye. But I wish I would have. We could have gotten immoderate together this very New Year’s Eve, joined in the “violent enthusiasms” of conversation, conviviality, maybe a cocktail or two, and the gratitude that can sometimes overflow every container  I have ever tried to place it in, and which looks to have overflowed your own to the very end of your days.

Farewell, good man. I’ll get back with you in 2016.


I don’t think I’ve ever heard a bad version of this, but Sinead O‘Connor’s compels the attention in a different kind of way…


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3 comments to Onwards to 2016 With “Gratitude” for Oliver Sacks

  • Kevin Feldman  says:

    Wow – never really been a big Sinead fan (truth is never really paid lots of attention) – but this version blew me away… thanks Andrew… and yes indeed, living life to the fullest – Oliver Sacks is most certainly a good role model, frailties/foibles and all – the Radio Lab duo did (speaking of curiosity unleashed across vast domains) did a really nice piece right after his death (Sacks was somewhat of a regular) – if interested see:http://www.radiolab.org/people/dr-oliver-sacks/ I am grateful for many things in 2015 – including lots of great reading/reflecting/musing around your blog! Thanks mate!

  • Jay Helman  says:

    Thanks for this wonderful reminder of Oliver Sacks, Drew. I was first led to him while in stroke recovery nearly seven years ago, and found him to be a great inspiration. Having just come through the trials of near death and substantial debilitation from the stroke, I found myself full of gratitude for life and full of promises to live an enriching, full, and meaningful life. Now it is seven years later and I often forget the gratitude for my health and recovery; and this must not be. Thanks for the reminder through this post.

  • Andrew Hidas  says:

    Kevin, one of my resolutions for 2016 surely should be tending regularly to the Radio Lab podcasts, which are invariably edifying and make me glad to be alive, with ears and a brain. Thanks for that tip!

    Jay, it seems to me that no matter how strong our intention to live differently, remember differently, and be mindful in all things, the human tendency is to slip-slide back to a baseline or “mean.” And the only effective counter to that is ever-renewed intention and habituation—the two foundation stones of lasting change. Those essentially equate to a “spiritual practice,” in all its varied forms. I’ve seen many references lately to building entire theologies and practices out of simple expressions of gratitude, which works for me provided we remain mindful of the stinking blind luck involved for all that we have been given, and the essential tragedy of so many humans who have not been treated nearly as kindly by God, Fate, the gods, the Big Agenda Setter, choose your preferred term…

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